Sunday, February 28, 2010

How We Met & Mastered Mr. Reflux

A friend recently asked me some questions about how we identified and dealt (still deal) with Eowyn's acid reflux issues, which spurred me to post about it. So, voila:

Thanks to the weeks spent with the Powell babies, two of which had fairly severe reflux, I suspected Eowyn within her first week of life ex-utero. Signs included:

- raring her head back (very good head control for such a bitty one)
- excessive spit-up (at times projectile) long after being fed
- lots of crying-especially during feeding (babies shouldn't cry then)
- screaming when put on her back, as well as times of inconsolable screaming-- when put on her back (even if asleep) she would usually soon "startle," throwing out her arms with wide-open eyes, and begin crying in pain,
- constant congestion (fairly common in a newborn, but hers didn't go away until about 2 weeks ago, so at nearly 5 mos),
- an obvious preference for an upright position (she always hated being cuddled in the typical "baby" position)
- green poop.

Taking her to the pediatrician when her constant congestion led to labored breathing in the early morning led her to a diagnosis of reflux by week 2. Prevacid was prescribed.

As for what we did,

At first, I gave her the Prevacid because she was in such obvious pain & we thought that might help quickly. The doctor gave us a 3-day supply so that we could see if it was effective before we had to buy it. If it helped, it was minimal. I started thinking about what Prevacid does-- it suppresses stomach acid-- and realized that if her body was already struggling to regulate itself, then this would probably only further confuse it. Since the medicine- treating the symptom- didn't really seem to help anyway, it was a no-brainer to form another strategy. Ours was to try to figure out the cause of the acid over-supply and then try to treat it naturally. I still have the prescription unfilled.

Looking around online, I researched main causes of acid reflux in infants. There are mom-side causes like overactive let-down, oversupply, and a high-acid diet. There are also baby-side causes like poor latch, food sensitivities (top trigger is dairy, then gluten, soy, certain veggies, caffeine, chocolate & alcohol). Since I already was off of gluten, soy, caffeine, alcohol & most sugar, those were eliminated. I decided to try other things before going dairy-free as a last resort if I needed to. I did have LOTS of milk, Eowyn was gaining a lot of weight, and one friend threw the phrase "foremilk-hindmilk imbalance" out there in the discussion. "Block feeding," in which the mother breastfeeds for several consecutive feedings on one breast only, was recommended (the fulness in the other breast tells your body that you don't need to make any more milk, and your supply begins to go down). When her poop turned green, I decided to go with the block feeding and see if that helped. Bringing my supply down was certainly not a bad idea, as I soaked through several changes of clothes each night, and had begun to sleep on a towel because Ryan & I literally would awaken in a puddle!

What is foremilk, you ask? Ok, quick explanation: (breastmilk is soooo cool!) the first milk that comes out when a baby breastfeeds, called "foremilk," is higher in water and in sugar (lactose), so that the baby's thirst is quenched quickly and he is motivated to keep sucking by the sweet taste. The later milk (called hindmilk) has more fat in it, as the fat globules tend to stick to the gland walls until the end of the feeding. If the baby doesn't stay on one breast long enough to get that fat-rich milk at the end, she will get lots of sugar (lactose), which humans only can digest so much of, and will get a full tummy, but won't necessarily be satisfied because the fat is what is filling. The baby's tummy will struggle to digest all the lactose, causing gas, which can push milk back up into the esophagus (aka acid reflux), and the lovely green poop... So I tried feeding her on one side only for as many feedings as I could stand... yeah... the first time I fed only from one breast for eight hours. Yikes! (Normally most moms switch sides mid-feeding, meaning each side empties about 1/2 a feeding's worth of milk every 3 hours!) God has made our bodies so amazingly that my milk supply very soon went down, until I just alternated which side I fed on each feeding. Sorry for all the information if you didn't want it-- I give the specifics because this might help some confused and desperate moms (like I was!)... Hooray for goodbye to green poop!

Our other problem on my end was was over-active letdown. This means my milk was coming out too fast for her, causing her to choke and swallow air, leading to gas bubbles (leading to acid reflux as well as to frustration while feeding). I had to help her stay ahead of the milk by feeding lying down or leaning back. Now that she's older, she's better at both latching and staying ahead of the milk, though her latch is still not great. Feeding her when she's sleepy or only half-awake is best. I also keep a cloth handy, so when I feel the milk let down (more like shoot out in a fire-hydrant of milk), and she comes off, I just catch it in the cloth and put her back on when the torrent slows to a trickle. (Once I caught it in a bottle to measure it and it was 3 ounces. Yikes!)

Other things we did: we started sleeping her on her tummy (with full knowledge & consent of her pediatrician)-- babies with acid reflux usually have very developed head control because of their neck-arching to try and escape the burning in their throats... while this is very sad, it does mean that they are less at risk for smothering themselves by sleeping on their tummies. We raised her bed to about a 20 degree angle and never put her flat on her back. She hated her carseat; it's at a really bad angle for reflux or GERD babies. She also resisted a sling (lying down hurt her), so we used the Ergo a lot and she loved that. I used saline drops every morning & might to keep her nose clear of infection despite the reflux-caused congestion. We deal with the spit-up through bibs and lots of burp cloths. When she rejects feedings for whatever reason, I try nursing her standing up and/or swaying, which usually does the trick. I did find that chocolate & cooked tomatoes, as well as an excess of pasteurized milk products aggravate her. "Tummy Soothers" Disney Natural drops really help, too. They are a suspension of ginger, chamomile and fennel, and have no negative side effects. At her worst we gave those to her 3 times a day and knew it if we missed a dose. (At first I had to give it to her in a bottle of expressed milk, but now she loves the taste and takes it straight from the syringe) I still give the Tummy Soothers to her about twice a week- whenever she has trouble- and spiked my own grape juice with it when I had a stomach flu! =D

Well, if you've read this far, you probably are a mom arming yourself with baby knowledge, or a future mom doing the same. I hope that this all helps!! If you've got other tips, please feel free to post them in the comments!

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Good vs. Bad Cholesterol?

This article is pretty good, explaining recent discoveries in a clear way. The jist of it? LDL & HDL (types of cholesterol) have long been cast into roles as "bad" and "good" cholesterol, meaning that foods high in LDLs such as butter, eggs, bacon & red meat, have been labeled 'unhealthy.' Now research is saying it isn't so neat and tidy.

For me, this is just one more finding backing up the 'traditional food' movement, which advocates whole foods that have been eaten for centuries, cooked in slow methods, and not vilifying any one food group (such as meats or fats) but rather embracing all in their proper place. In other words, eating natural sources of saturated fats isn't just ok, it's needed for health-- it's what traditional cultures around the world have thrived upon, and what our own ancestors ate!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Scrapbooking


We girls have a weekly date with the Montgomery girls, for scrapbooking & girl time. Jenny & I try to get as much done as we can while the girls nap, and then when they're up, we get in a little more! Eowyn was very cooperative and just kicked happily away as I finished a page (note the messed-up blanket near her feet).




Very yummy mostly-decaf hazelnut coffee!


Jane on her perch-- this holds all my scrapbooking supplies... Jane would climb on it, very proud of herself, and then be too scared to climb down, so she effectively confined herself to its top. We wouldn't get her down right away, so it was rather convenient. :)

4 Month Update



Well- Baby visit today went... well! She is healthy and right on target.
Weight: 14 1/5 lbs (75%)
Height: 25.75" (80%)
I'll right more later... computer time is brief tonight!

Thursday, February 04, 2010

Senate Bill 38

my friend Emily posted this information on her blog this morning, thankfully!! I somehow missed that today was the last day to call! I just did and it only took about 5 minutes. I watched the video below during church on Sunday with my daughter in my arms. It made me cry; the though that 1/5th of children her age never make it into the sunlight, that they are murdered by people who care more about their own lives than their child's... The thought of anyone doing to my daughter what thousands of parents daily do to their own children, born or unborn, turns my stomach and my heart to tears. The Bible says that our God daily bears indignity-- that it's just His mercy keeping Him from wiping us all off this planet. Abortion, and murder of every sort, must be one of the most horrific things He bears with. Please, fight to end this in our nation! Fight for LIFE, either by adoption, by prayer, by protest, by crisis counseling, by foster parenting, by political advocaLinkcy... any way you can. And please, those of you in Kentucky, do support this bill.

Many of you may not know that TODAY is the last day to call your state representative and tell them that you want Senate Bill 38 - "The Ultrasound Bill" to pass. It's a bill that will require abortionists to show the mother an ultrasound before their abortion. We know that at least 25% of women will not go through with their abortion after seeing an ultrasound.

The phone number to call is 1-800-372-7181 (7am-11pm EST). It only takes a few minutes to call!

Along the same lines, a dear friend of ours from Louisville recently put together this video for our former church about the importance of fighting for life. If you have a few extra minutes to watch, please do, and prayerfully consider how the Lord is calling you to fight for life.

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Abortion: A Matter of Life or Death from Casey Cashell on Vimeo.

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Ummm... she's just too cute.


This morning she was so happy being with me while I made grits for breakfast, on this very chilly snowy day! Then we went to book club together, then we picked up Daddy & went to look at/buy a table, chairs & hutch in Shelbyville (45 min. away), then we went to a friend's 1st birthday party, and then we made dinner together (hummus & falafel from scratch!). She's been such a little trooper!

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Family Heritage Idea


Eowyn got some really cool Christmas gifts this year, such as the Bitty Baby doll that looks like her, from her Great-Grandparents Presley! Heheh it was really funny to see her stare that "other baby" down! But the coolest gift that she got is much cooler; so cool that I wanted to share it with you all,because you might want to try and make your own!

For Grandpa's birthday last year, Ryan & I got a blank scrapbook, and wrote one or two questions on each page-- things like "What do you remember about your mother?," "What kinds of chores did you have as a boy?," "How did you come to know the Lord?," "What honors have you received throughout your life?," "What famous people have you met?" and "What is your favorite book?" You get the idea. We basically asked Ryan's grandpa all sorts of questions about himself, his tastes, his courtship of Grandma, his childhood, his schooling, his travels, and his spiritual journey. Grandpa is a pretty quiet guy, especially in large-group settings, so it's not every day that we get to hear these sorts of things from him. Well, he worked really hard, and had it finished in time for Christmas! He'd not only answered every question and filled in most of the family tree we'd put in there, but he even found relevant family photos to include! Ryan & I read the anecdotes with amazement and delight! Despite us learning that Grandpa's least favorite subject in school was English, he is an excellent writer, and some of the stories in there are just plain hilarious! We cannot wait to tell Eowyn all about her great-grandfather in his own words, and give her more of a taste of life during his lifetime. It's been such a success that we'd like to repeat it with Eowyn's other grandparents and great-grandparents. How much family history is lost just because we never think to ask? We're so busy in our own day and age that it's easy to forget about past days and ages, times that are past and gone, but not very far away at all.

So Grandpa, thank you SO MUCH for your hard work... Eowyn will LOVE IT!!! :)

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Picture Book List

A friend recently asked me for a list of fun books for little kids, and here is what I came up with (in no particular order):

Guess How Much I Love You
Good Night Moon (Margaret Wise Brown)
The Little Engine that Could
The Gingerbread Man
Mike Mulligan & His Steam Shovel
Little Toot
The Little House
The Owl & the Pussycat
We're Going on a Bear Hunt
All of the Places to Love
any/all of the Eric Carle books (The Very Busy Spider; The Grouchy Ladybug; The Very Hungry Caterpillar; Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See?; etc)
The Kissing Hand
any of the "Carl" books, ex. Good Dog, Carl or Happy Birthday Carl... about a black Lab & baby girl-- very few words, and very very funny!
Where the Wild Things Are
Make Way for Ducklings
The Story about Ping
Ferdinand
Go, Dog, Go! (and all the Dr. Suess books!)
Moo Moo La La La
all of the Don & Audrey Wood books (The Napping House, etc.)
I Love You, Goodnight
Good Night, Gorilla (also almost wordless, but hilarious!)
books of fairy tales & fables & myths
Owl At Home & Frog & Toad Are Friends (Arnold Lobel)
Owl Babies
The Littles & their Friends
Knuffle Bunny

Also wonderful:
The Jesus Storybook Bible (Sally Lloyd-Jones)
The Big Picture Story Bible (David Helm)
Most of All, Jesus Loves You (Noel Piper)
The King without a Shadow (RC Sproul)...one set of Bible stories in 4 volumes with awesome simple pictures that I can't remember the name of...

As for where to look, check out the used books online at Amazon-- go to dealoz.com for a complete price comparison. I get lots of mine at Goodwill for 50 cents, or at the peddler's malls around town.

Gianna Jennsen and Haitian Orphans?

One of the most persuasive people I've ever heard speak on the topic of abortions is Gianna Jennsen. She doesn't get loud and in your face, or get graphic and guilt-tripping. She does bring up the Gospel, standing up for what is right, and expecting to face difficulty. Her whole life has been difficult-- she's got to live with several extensive disabilities due to the fact that her birthmother tried to abort her. I find her incredibly encouraging. I just found out that she is going to be speaking TONIGHT at U of L! Any of you in the area who want to come, get information here.





I will be posting a report on the actual talk, providing my own precious baby lets me go and hear something! It will be interesting to me to hear/see how the recent loss of life and devastation in Haiti affects our nation's attitude towards the loss of life in our own land. It's impossible to deny that the people hurt by the earthquake are people, no matter their age, rank or serial number (to borrow the phrase). Pictures plastered all over the news push their suffering undeniably in our face. And so many of us want to help. I pray that those people ARE helped, and that by their suffering we comfortable Americans will be reminded that there are those who are defenseless and helpless here, too. Not in the face of an earthquake, but in the face of neglect, doubt and inconvenience. Maybe the suffering we see in others will remind us just how precious life is. As Horton said "a person's a person, no matter how small"-- whether they live in Louisville's West Side, Haiti, or a woman's uterus.

If you want to do something, either about the suffering and loss of life in Haiti, or the suffering and loss of life due to unplanned pregnancies & abortion here in America, my father is running the Boston Marathon in order to raise money for Bethany Christian Services, an organization that provides an incredible range of services for women, children, and families in dire straights. Infertility care, domestic & international adoption, orphan care, foster care, crisis pregnancy counseling, family counseling, pregnancy and pre-natal care, special-needs adoptions, abortion alternative awareness... they do it all, and they do it lovingly and thoroughly. They already had a ministry presence in Haiti, and now are using that to channel help and hope-- both physical and spiritual-- to those in Haiti, especially the most helpless. If you want to donate, please do one of the following: you can donate under my dad's name (go to www.bethany.org/marathon and click on "Sponsor a Runner" and click 'Bart Thompson'), or through their Haiti Relief & Recovery Initiative. You could even do both at once!

Well, my own little one is calling me now... she definitely is her own little person!!
--Christina

Monday, January 25, 2010

How Do they Do it?

Random thought of the day: I've been getting Southern Living and Family Circle for free as a promo thing, and it's nice to have something easy to read... to get good ideas. Some of the op-ed pieces are really funny, too. But sometimes the authors really blast their neighbors, or family members, or even their own spouses, and I just wonder... do they not tell their families that they're writers? Do they honestly think that their mom doesn't read every thing they write? Or maybe they all use pen-names... I especially wonder this when at the end of the piece it says something like "so-and-so lives in Ritersville, GA, with her two children and a dog." I've thought this while reading memoirs, too. Do they just trust that the people who were so mean to them or with whom they so disagree would never pick up anything they'd write? Random, like I said... but I do wonder!

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Let Us Highly Resolve

This year, I've tried to have 1 personal New Year's resolution, & 2 that practically affect our family. (not that the personal one doesn't, but you'll see what I mean):

1. more regular prayer
2. more of a seasonal diet
3. a more orderly home

1. More regular prayer- "Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving." (Col 4:2); "do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." (Phil. 4:6)-- in our church covenant, we vow not to "neglect the great duty of prayer"- this phrase keeps coming to mind... I was especially convicted of the lacking in my prayer life while we spent so much time with our families over the holidays. Here we were folks we love so much and so seldom see, and it struck me that I hadn't been actively praying in preparation leading up to my time with them. It's not that I don't expect God to be working, more like I have forgotten that I could be a part of that working if I wanted to be, and by His Spirit's prompting, I DO WANT TO BE!! In order to help myself be more "thorough" about prayer, you could say, I've started assigning different people to different days. The idea is that [eventually] I'll just have to think about what day it is and be prompted to pray for specific members of my immediate family, close friends, and missionaries. In the past I've picked specific verses to pray for different people, and I think I want to dig out that little journal and start that up again.

2. More seasonal eating-- "And God said, "Let there be lights in the expanse of the heavens to separate the day from the night. And let them be for signs and for seasons, and for days and years," (Gen 1:14); "He [God] made the moon to mark the seasons; the sun knows its time for setting." (Ps. 104:19) In the psalmist's consideration of the Lord's marvels (sung so exuberantly by Fernando Ortega in "Creation Song"), he lists the seasons. It really is amazing, when you think about it, to consider how we get to enjoy distinct periods of temperature, precipitation, harvest, and planting. Even in places where it's springy-summer all year round there are seasons of rain and dry. There's a rhythm to the world, and I have to believe the joyful Creator intends it for His children's joy. It's really well-designed, too; in the summer, when we are prone to dehydration, fruits grow full of water: melons, tomatoes, cucumber; in the autumn, fruits that tend to keep easily, such as gourds, apples & nuts, grow and we have them over the barren winter. Our ancestors also had low-tech ways of preserving food which actually add nutrients to the food or makes it more digestible; fermentation (pickling), drying, boiling and preserving. So here at Szrama Clan KY we'll be trying to do better about eating in the natural rhythm of things. It'll be a fun dance to join in. Not that we won't cheat of course-- Ryan's birthday is far from the middle of strawberry season, and we definitely will have strawberries then-- but generally we'll be trying to eat things that either grow during that season, or can easily be kept fresh until that season (grains, legumes, & animal products sort of "grow" year round, in my mind...so does chocolate, of course). Anyway, it will be fun and will keep us eating a varied diet for sure!! I'm sure you will hear about this experiment as the year goes on!!

3. More of an orderly home--"Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality." (Rom 12:13); "She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. (Prov. 31:27) As so many wives & moms know, one of the biggest obstacles to hospitality is a messy house... for a whole host of reasons, the least of which is not finding a place for your guest to sit. :) I want our home to be a "Homely House;" a place where pilgrims and seekers alike can come in and get a little respite from a world that does not know peace or love true beauty. I would love for the order and peace of our home to remind Christians of Heaven and even hint of it to non-believers-- something they glimpse here and not in other places. I want it to be a place where my husband and children can find refuge and be secure. It is said of Mrs. Edith Schaeffer (wife of the famous Francis Schaeffer) that as many students were saved through her cookies as through her husband's teaching. :) So... I want to be better about keeping this place clean and organized. Hehehe I don't want Eowyn finding nasty stuff to eat, either, now that she's starting to pick stuff up and eat EVERYTHING. I'm getting help in the form of a simple chore schedule (Nicole, you could make me one with stickers if you want), and the website flylady.com... Again, I'm sure you will have updates about this throughout the year!

Well, those are my "new year's resolutions!" Feel free to share your own in the comments!
"To this end we always pray for you, that our God may make you worthy of his calling and may fulfill every resolve for good and every work of faith by his power, so that the name of our Lord Jesus may be glorified in you, and you in him, according to the grace of our God and the Lord Jesus Christ. (II Thess 1:11-12)

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Talking


Eowyn has lately been SO much more vocal, happy, and expressive!! We love it!

Harry Potter & Anne of Green Gables?

I was longing for a bit of literary criticism over my morning waffles, and found this article comparing Anne of Green Gables and Harry Potter, two heros of series I've really enjoyed and which have had lasting impacts on me. The reason I enjoy reading these sorts of articles is that it makes me take a step back and say "huh! I never thought of that!" and then feel really smart as I think about whether I agree or not. :) I've always been a "big-picture" person, wanting to ascertain factors and causes and themes-- these sorts of articles, which always bring the authors greater views into the discussion-- help me do that. Anyway...

In book club this month, we're reading Rebecca, by Daphne du Marier. So far, it's one I'm really glad I bought! (thank you, Half-priced Books!...love that store) I read an article about it when I first picked it up, to see if I'd like it. The article compares it to Jane Eyre. I think the comparison is warrented, and interesting to consider. So if you liked Jane Eyre, go get Rebecca!

Friday, January 22, 2010

Surprise, Suzanne!






My former co-worker Suzanne turned 30 today, and her husband Rocky organized a surprise party for her at Carraba's, an Italian restaurant (which has a gluten free menu and only uses olive oil!!). We had a great time!

Monday, January 18, 2010

Happy Monthiversary!





While musing about our evening plans earlier in the afternoon, I blurted out. "Tonight's our monthiversary!" (Yep- 2 years and 5 months) Ryan congratulated me on my knowledge of the date. I then reminded him of my Starbucks gift card from Grandma and it was a date. We left after dinner and enjoyed our mochas, speed Scrabble, a darling baby who was sweet enough to fall asleep and let us talk... and of course, talking. :)

I love you, sweetheart.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Diaper Report #2


Eowyn is now 3 1/2 months old, and at 3 months weighed 13 1/2 lbs... no idea how much she does right now, but basically she is a lot chubbier and longer than she was at my last diapering report.

Preferences:
-- Daily use: infant size 4x8x4 unbleached prefolds, fastened with a snappi, covered in a medium Bummis Super Brite cover.
*prefold: I bought factory seconds for $11/dozen at http://www.clothdiaper.com/ So far they have been WONDERFUL!! I do use a diaper doubler (homemade: usually 1/2 a 100% cotton washcloth, or a whole one folded in half), and a fleece liner (again, homemade-- just strips cut the length of a prefold). The extra thickness keeps messes absorbed nearer the middle of the diaper (less likely to seep out), and the fleece wicks the moisture away, and is easier to clean off.
*I like the Super Brites better than the Super Whisper Wrap because they have leg gussets as well as fastening with velcro (nice exact fit every time)
-- While out-and-about, overnight, or for childcare: small Fuzzibunz pocket diaper, double-stuffed. Just like disposables, except they get thrown in a bag, not a trash can. I usually use 2 of the inserts that came with the diapers (newer dipes have microfiber inserts; older ones come with cotton I think-- I received a huge stash as hand-me-downs from my Aunt Virginia). In a pinch I've folded 2 of the low-quality prefolds I also inherited and stuffed with those. The double-stuffing is imperative.
-- I do also use Bummis Super Whisper Wraps, and Indisposables brand fitted prefolds, given to me second-hand. I do NOT recommend the Indisposables if you are building your own stash. They are soft enough, etc., but they don't absorb well, and some are wearing out alarmingly quickly. Reviews at diaperpin.com seem to indicate this is relatively common, mainly because they are filled with polyester rather than cotton... So it may be that my distaste for fitted diapers should be limited to the brand I have! I'm happy w/ pre-folds now, so I guess we'll never know. :) The Bummis are great. They dry quickly, fit moderately well (snaps), and show no signs of wear so far. Now if only they had leg gussets...

Others used:
-- I was just given a Kawaii Baby one-size pocket diaper (available at http://www.theloveyourbaby.com/) which came with 2 microfiber inserts. I am thrilled with the fit of the diaper, the price looks amazing... the only thing I don't love about them is that the microfleece layer next to Eowyn's skin seems to hold stains worse than Fuzzibunz diapers do. Time outside in the sun helps, though. A great diaper to get if you are starting your stash!
-- Eowyn had a blowout at friend's house and I needed to borrow a diaper cover. My friend lent me a Thirsties cover, and I LOVE IT! It has leg gussets, velcro... It just feels less sturdy than the Bummis covers I have. Not sure how it would do long-term. If I was buying my own stash, I'd probably get at least 1/2 of these, though!

Tricks & Tips learned:
-- diaper sprayers are WONDERFUL. You totally could pressure wash a sidewalk with ours, lol.
-- when using diaper covers, the maxim "a cover is only as good as the diaper it covers" totally is true! I thought my diaper covers were absolute trash until I tried using higher-quality prefolds, and all of a sudden had NO leaks at all, ever, for hours. The cover will only be as good at holding junk IN as the diaper is at absorbing it! So... INVEST IN QUALITY PREFOLDS!!
-- make sure you tuck everything in. Facilitated diffusion means that moisture will travel to every bit of dry material it can reach-- if the teensiest part bit of diaper is sticking out of the cover (maybe in back where you didn't see it), it WILL get the clothes all wet! I found that tucking in the leg gussets of the fitted prefolds around her legs helped with leakage too.
-- making your own phosphate-free powder laundry soap is soooo easy!! (this is the recipe I use, plus I add a bit of OxyClean or its organic counterpart) I tried an all-natural coconut-based soap with wonderful results. It made my cost a little bit higher than if I'd used Dial or Ivory, but I liked knowing that it was less toxic and more "natural." Once my stash of Borax, OxyClean & Washing Soda run out, though, we are going to try soap nuts!! Talk about all-natural: they GROW ON TREES!! I'll keep ya posted.
--g-diapers: Eowyn outgrew the smalls we had, and we liked them while they lasted. I used the disposable inserts on trips. They worked especially well on her when she was little! We'll probably use them the first 2-3 months on our next one, too.

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Everybody Loves Blocks!








The girls were SO excited when I pulled this toy out. We think Eowyn will love it, too!


And... what I was doing the whole time:

Old Friends

The past few days, we've seen a bunch of friends from Ryan's high school/college days-- Josh & Jessica R. and their twins Caitlyn & Ally, and baby Sarala; Jerry & Jessica C. and their girls Jenna & Jocelyn; and Mike J., Ryan's partner-in-crime from Little Flock Baptist (oh the stories, the appaling stories I have heard...). It's been so much fun! We had several nights of 6 under 4 running around our living room, board games, a crazy dance party, and lots of laughs.
Eowyn & Uncle Mike

Matching hairdos! :)

Josh's 3 girlies


Ryan reading a bedtime story


Josh & Jessica, concentrating during Carcasonne


Our game in progress

They both had to do their hair before this pic


Crazy!


Strategy...



Me with my dance partners

Chili, Games, and Snow Cream




Bunk beds


Ryan enjoying his snow cream

Jerry & Jojo

I think the title says it all... neither of the other couples had made snow cream before, so we did NOT pass up the perfect opportunity to treat them. Snow has to fall for quite a while to be safe enough to eat in the city (2 hrs. to clear the air of pollutants, and then enough snow after the 2 hr mark to make a full batch). We made egg-nog flavored and vanilla flavored, with chocolate syrup on top and cinnamon mixed in. Yummy!

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

More on Vaccines/Autism in General

For any interested, here's another article on vaccinations... I like this article because it connects the problems with the CDC vaccine schedule with not only genetic factors but also dietary factors (especially the lack of nutritive fats in our cultural diet). When we vaccinate Eowyn we will do so only when she is in optimum health AND taking natural forms of vitamins A, C, E and D in large (safe) doses (ex. cod liver oil, coconut oil, raw milk, liver, bone broth, and lots of fruits & veggies!). For the vaccinations that occur while she's still nursing, I'll be taking those doses for her so she gets them via milk!

A quote to give you a taste of the dietary connections in the article: "This improves cognition, but they [children reacting badly to immunizations] are still physically ill. When these children get the MMR vaccine, their vitamin A stores are depleted and they cannot compensate for blocked pathways. Lack of vitamin A, which has been called "the anti-infective agent," leaves them immunosuppressed. They lack cell-mediated immunity. T cell activation, important for long term immune memory, requires 14-hydroxy retro-retinol. On cod liver oil, the only natural source of this natural substance, the children get well."

Another on a multi-disciplinary approach to autism: "We must direct all of our resources and efforts to establish multi-disciplinary centers to treat these children. Insurance companies should pay for evaluations, both medical and psychiatric, and treatment. These children are physically ill, immunosuppressed with a chronic autoimmune disorder affecting multiple organ systems. Funding to look at etiology of autism, to identify children at risk prior to "autistic regression," and to prevent this disorder is imperative.

Implementing vaccine policies that are safe for all children should become our first priority."

Still researching...
-- Eowyn's Mommy